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Title: Sad News
Post by: NekoBot on March 20, 2012, 07:30:21 PM
I didnt know anywhere else to put this topic, but my gf just broke up with me because Im not part of gods plan and yet its because of me that god made her so happy.
 
wth is that  >:(  I mean.... how should I take this?
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Mr.PowPow on March 20, 2012, 07:40:26 PM
To be fair that isn't the strangest of break-ups. My friend's ex broke up with him, and I quote "the faeries say you are a bad man, and that I should go to California to become a singer"
You've gotta see the funny side of it xD


But in all seriousness, if she broke up with you by saying its through destiny and fate, then you should just leave it since you won't get through to her. Fate is fate, people who believe in that are set on a single course through life and believe it has to be followed.

Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoBot on March 20, 2012, 07:45:00 PM
But in all seriousness, if she broke up with you by saying its through destiny and fate, then you should just leave it since you won't get through to her. Fate is fate, people who believe in that are set on a single course through life and believe it has to be followed.

I think you're right, I mean, she had a full ride to go to this college in Boston and she asked god for a sign if she should go and her shower turned cold, and so she took that as a sign to not go..... so I see what you mean
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Mr.PowPow on March 20, 2012, 07:47:30 PM
she asked god for a sign if she should go and her shower turned cold
I'm sorry but I found that slightly amusing xD
but yeah, I am not trying to be mean I am sorry for your loss, but take this as an opportunity to find someone who is more compatible and less "fate-bound". You may not see it now, but this is a good thing in disguise
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoBot on March 20, 2012, 07:52:35 PM
ok  ;)  I can do this!
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Mr.PowPow on March 20, 2012, 07:53:18 PM
ok  ;)  I can do this!
Thats the spirit!
You go for it *slaps you on the ass*
Yeah!
.....no? last bit too much? Hey you have a nice ass >_>
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoJonez on March 20, 2012, 07:54:51 PM
Hey, man... that's always bad...
Know that Arpegi has your back man.

Try to remember the good moments and try to not keep all the hate/regret for yourself... the result in you feeling worse.
So keep that spirit up okay?
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoBot on March 20, 2012, 08:01:52 PM
ok  ;)  I can do this!
Thats the spirit!
You go for it *slaps you on the ass*
Yeah!
.....no? last bit too much? Hey you have a nice ass >_>

umm.... thanks? XD

Hey, man... that's always bad...
Know that Arpegi has your back man.

Try to remember the good moments and try to not keep all the hate/regret for yourself... the result in you feeling worse.
So keep that spirit up okay?

Thx Jonez  :D
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Mr.PowPow on March 20, 2012, 08:06:04 PM
ok  ;)  I can do this!
Thats the spirit!
You go for it *slaps you on the ass*
Yeah!
.....no? last bit too much? Hey you have a nice ass >_>
umm.... thanks? XD
Don't act like you don't like it ;p
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoBot on March 20, 2012, 08:11:53 PM
hahahahaha  ;D
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: O:\msg on March 20, 2012, 08:17:39 PM
It always seems bad at first, but trust me, a few weeks of having a new GF and you won't even remember what she looked like. Boobs cure everything.
My daughters mother left me and took £60,000 of mine, now that is a reason to be upset.
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: dark 5FVD on March 20, 2012, 08:18:46 PM
keep your head up if she dumps you for that reason then she isn't worth your time.
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoBot on March 20, 2012, 08:18:58 PM
It always seems bad at first, but trust me, a few weeks of having a new GF and you won't even remember what she looked like. Boobs cure everything.
My daughters mother left me and took £60,000 of mine, now that is a reason to be upset.

yeah  :o
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: O:\msg on March 20, 2012, 08:21:24 PM
Yup and I was mad for a while but now I don't even care because I got a new GF and we haven't argued in 6 years, we're perfect together so I say it was money well spent getting rid of her. Always think of the positives and what good can come of a situation.
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: shredc0re on March 21, 2012, 07:21:25 AM
You'll get through this mate, I promise ya.
My GF broke up with me the day before valentines day, because I "changed". And now she's crawling back saying that she still loves me and that she misses me.

Just stay strong, you will always have someone that's there for you. Someone that you can count on.
Keep your head up, do a lot of things and DO NOT overthink.
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: NekoJonez on March 21, 2012, 07:48:32 AM
You'll get through this mate, I promise ya.
My GF broke up with me the day before valentines day, because I "changed". And now she's crawling back saying that she still loves me and that she misses me.

Just stay strong, you will always have someone that's there for you. Someone that you can count on.
Keep your head up, do a lot of things and DO NOT overthink.
He is right, and remember... Just like helped shredc0re and talked some good mood into him for 1 or 2 days... there are always people there to help you. Family & friends, always there to try and cheer you up. Breaking up is no fun but it isn't the end of the world ;).

And remember, I am Jonez, your friendly admin ~ My shoulder can be cried on because I hate it when people around me feel bad. I always wanna cheer them up. Hey, bro hug needed man?
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: BloodcatNS on March 21, 2012, 09:36:22 AM
I didnt know anywhere else to put this topic, but my gf just broke up with me because Im not part of gods plan and yet its because of me that god made her so happy.
Seriously? I know I'm Christian but...that's a really weird excuse even for me.
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: shredc0re on March 21, 2012, 09:56:40 PM
Oh, and just something I wanne share.. Don't listen to music about heartbreak etc. Seriously, it doesn't help -_- You'll find a lot of lyrics that make you think "I know the feeling" and you'll end up thinking about your ex and feel even worse.
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: CarolineJohnson on May 05, 2012, 11:54:57 PM
This thread reminds me of a friend I have on MSN. She said one time she had a boyfriend for a week, and after that he broke up with her. Apparently the reason was that she wouldn't give him cheat codes to some game that doesn't have cheat codes.